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7. Using the elements from either question #4 or #5, analyze the following conversation:

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Dan: That was a blast!

Sarah: (stony silence)

Dan: (raising his voice) I SAID that was a great party!

Sarah: I BET you had a good time. Im sure the 17 women you danced with had a great time, too.

Dan: Oh, I get it. Youre pouting. Is that itYoure pouting, arent you? Well, at least youre consistent, since thats what you were doing all night anyway.

Sarah: I had to do SOMETHING with while youre making a complete ass of yourself!

Dan: Look whos talking. Youre such a loser at parties, no wonder no one wants to dance with you.

Sarah: Im not a loser. Ive told you a thousand times that parties like that arent for people like me, but you never listen. I dont like parties because you drink too much, and I cant stand your friends either. When youre with them, you make me totally miserable.

Dan: At least I have some friends. Youd have some, too, if you didnt hang around Christine all the time. Youre always on my case about how I screw everything up around the house. You think Im an idiot.

Sarah: How could you screw things up at the houseYoure never home! Youve been saying for 6 months that youre going to clean out the garage, but you never do. Its either fantasy baseball all summer or hunting every weekend in the fall.

Dan: You know why I hunt all the time? Because the animals are more fun than you are. And they dont go looking for fights for no good reason.

Sarah: This isnt a fight. Its a discussion. And I hardly went looking for it.

Dan: Yeah, good one. And I bet you didnt pick out that $500 worth of clothes youve been hiding in the closet for the last week either?

Sarah: Whatever. Lets just drop it. Youre drunk. I should know better than to deal with you when youre like this.

Dan: Now you want to drop it. Youve been at me since we got in the car. You brought it uplets talk about it. How, exactly, do you think were going to pay for your little shopping spree. We havent paid for the last one yet. Obviously, Im not going to get any help from you, since youre the struggling student with no job.

Sarah: How did you know about those clothes anyway? Besides, I was going to take them back on Monday.

Dan: Christine told me.

Sarah: WHAT!?!?!? You are such a jerk. And shes a real piece of work, that one, too. Shes the one who said I should buy them in the first place.

Dan: Maybe she just finds me a little more interesting than you. She probably felt sorry for you.

Sarah: Thats it. Im done. Im so over this. Im getting my own apartment.

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